![]() So, my opinion is just the collection of what I’ve heard. I need other people to tell me if it’s good or bad. īecause it’s just something that’s outside of me, like I don’t have an opinion on this thing about myself. But I have noticed, especially in that conversation with my friend this morning, that there are aspects in my life where I’m entirely dependent on people’s compliments. I don’t depend on the outside world for motivation or much. My confidence and my motivation and everything come internally. So, I think it’s a good thing to ask yourself. Like they need somebody to tell them that they’re smart in order to feel smart, but they definitely feel hot. ![]() ![]() You know, some people are completely confident physically, and not confident intellectually. It’s a really interesting thing to ask yourself. And in what aspects of your life do you need outside validation, like you need compliments or other people’s opinions in order to feel confident about these things? In what aspects in your life, does your confidence come from within? Like you personally think that you are awesome in this way. I don’t see it.” Nothing makes her feel beautiful, but she feels completely confident intellectually and emotionally. Men could be down on their knees, praising her beauty, and she just doesn’t believe it. I was just talking with my best friend in Australia this morning about this subject because she’s very confident about herself intellectually and emotionally, but she does not think of herself as attractive, no matter what anybody tells her. That’s how my muscle of self-confidence grows. I have a lot of theories, one of which is that self-confidence comes when I make some little promises to myself. That reminds me of your post about “Keep earning your title or it expires.”Īnother question which I also get a lot, especially from women, is about self-confidence. You just got to go with it and actually feel glad that you’re changing. So, I think there are going to be many times in your life when your identity changes and you can’t feel bad about it. You haven’t even written a song in two months.” And then I started a business and I stopped making music. This is what I want now.” That’s just the most recent example that’s on my mind today.īut in the past, all my friends knew me as a musician. I like solitude and silence and nature.”Īnd then after I got to Europe, I felt like, “You know, I just really feel like being right in the middle of a noisy city right now. And then I moved to Europe and I thought that I would do the same because I had kind of defined myself as like, “I’m a nature guy. I was living in the wilderness in New Zealand. ![]() Yeah, I think it helps to also not need to feel loyal to who you were before. It is helpful, and it makes you look from things from a different perspective. The worst thing is usually when nothing changes. Even if it seems bad at first, in the long run, you can usually look back and be glad that things changed. ![]() And change usually - almost always – is good. When your life is changing that means you’re changing and you’re getting smarter. So, I think if you’re having a big change in your life then it can feel overwhelming, but you’ve got to kind of appreciate it, you know? īecause you should feel lucky that that’s a good problem. #Ewasiest way to determien fat type from ibored how toI think that most people in life feel like they’re in a rut, like nothing is changing, and they feel stuck and they’re bored, and they don’t know how to make any change. I think most people I know or most people I hear from have the opposite problem. What would you suggest that she does when some of her identity changes in life are happening right now at the moment? And she says she feels like someone pulled out a carpet underneath her feet? ĭid she give any more information than that? My first question for you, which came from one of my followers, a girl who also follows and loves your work. And thank you so much for taking your time to be a part of this. Welcome to my first episode of my new podcast. Jovana Miljanovic / Podcast | Derek Sivers Derek Sivers Interviews → Jovana Miljanovic / PodcastĬhanging identities, tea, thinking through things slowly, why you shouldn’t be attached to plans Date: 2020-02 Download: mp3 ![]()
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